Mrs. Dalloway: A Decadent Read

This book has received some hate.

It’s been called boring, uneventful, and difficult to follow.

Not exactly.

MRS. DALLOWAY BOOK REVIEW

QUOTES AND ANALYSIS

“‘Do you remember the lake?’ she said, in an abrupt voice, under the pressure of an emotion which caught her heart, made the muscles of her throat stiff, and contracted her lips in a spasm as she said ‘lake.’

For she was a child, throwing bread to the ducks, between her parents, and at the same time a grown woman coming to her parents who stood by the lake, holding her life in her arms which, as she neared them grew larger and larger in her arms until it became a whole life, a complete life, which she put down by them and said, ‘This is what I have made of it! This!’ And what had she made of it?”

-Virginia Woolf Mrs. Dalloway

This is not a page turner. It won’t keep you up all night. In fact, after a dozen or so pages you will likely need to set it down simply because it obliterates and transcends the parameters that we have been conditioned to expect from a novel. But that’s a good thing. It begs you to return to it again and again, extracting new meanings with every read, like any great work of art should. In a very meta way, Woolf forces you to think with the mind of a writer in order to understand and appreciate what she is doing. That is to say, she challenges your mind to never stop, to never breathe, to always be working to extract deeper meanings out of seemingly small, mundane things. With that in mind, I quickly learned that this is a book that is meant to be savored like a rich desert. If you try to down half the book in one sitting, you will be dizzy and in various states of cognitive pain. But if you take it slowly, if you let each word linger in your mouth like a hard candy, I think you’ll understand the hype.

Time

“But she said, sitting on the bus going up Shaftesbury Avenue, she felt herself everywhere; not ‘here, here, here’; and she tapped the back of the seat; but everywhere…So that to know her, or any one, one must seek out the people who completed them; even the places.

the part of us which appears, are so momentary compared with the other, the unseen part of us, which spreads wide, the unseen might survive, be recovered somehow attached to this person or that, or even haunting certain places, after death. Perhaps – perhaps.”

-Virginia Woolf Mrs. Dalloway

There is also an isolation to each character’s experiences, where one is never remotely near to fully understanding the other, that painfully and somewhat cathartically exposes the isolation that I think we all feel as me move through the world. Our minds are so deeply complex, our experiences so varied and personal, that it is nearly impossible for anyone to understand us completely, even if we feel that they do.

For these reasons, I appreciate the art that is Mrs. Dalloway. But on a deeper level, I appreciate the work that Woolf did to authentically communicate what it feels like to be alive in the world. Because, yeah, it can be boring and uneventful and difficult to stick with at times. But its art. And we’re creating it all the time.

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